7 Hilarious Signs You’re Falling Out of Love (And What to Do About It)

7 Red Flags That Your Love for Your Partner is Fading

7 Signals You’re Falling Out of Love With Your Partner

So, you’re deeply in love, skipping through life with butterflies in your stomach and a smile on your face. But what happens when the enchantment fades? How can you tell if you’re falling out of love? Fear not, my fashionable friends, because I’ve consulted with sex and relationships therapists to bring you these hilarious signs that your love boat might be sinking, and some tips on what to do about it.

1. You Don’t Think (Or Really Care) About Your Partner Anymore

“A big sign you’ve fallen out of love is a complete sense of being checked out from the relationship,” says the fabulous therapist, Karen Washington, PhD, LMFT. It’s like your partner has suddenly become invisible, and you find yourself daydreaming about a life without them. Let’s face it, if you don’t even care about them or your relationship, that’s a pretty telltale sign you’re falling out of love.

2. Your Sex Life is Deteriorating

Now, let’s talk about the not-so-hot topic of your sex life. Sure, there can be valid reasons why things might turn lukewarm in the bedroom. But according to Washington, if your relationship is heading towards the exit door, your intimate moments might dwindle like a dying flame. If you don’t feel good about your partner, you’re not exactly going to feel like getting frisky with them. But hey, every situation is unique. So ask yourself, is it them, or is it what’s happening around you? Do you still feel desire? Maybe consulting with a certified sex and relationships therapist will help you find the answers.

3. You Don’t Want to Spend Time With Your Partner

You know something’s definitely off when spending time with your partner feels like a chore. It’s like a never-ending reality show you’d rather cancel. As therapist Karen Washington points out, if seeing your partner fills you with dread or irritation, it’s a pretty clear sign that your heart isn’t in it anymore. Spending time together should feel exciting and bring joy, not sadness or the desire to hide under the covers. Is this an issue you can work on together? Or is it a sign that it’s time to bid your partner farewell?

4. You’re Completely Drained by Your Relationship Issues And Feel Contempt Toward Your Partner

Ah, the joy of constant relationship issues! They can drain your energy and make you feel like you’ve been trapped in a three-hour superhero movie marathon. Suddenly, you find yourself rolling your eyes at your partner or thinking they can’t do anything right. According to therapist Kaylee Rose Friedman, this constant frustration and negative sentiment override is a sign you might be falling out of love. Although communication and couples therapy might help, there are times when the best solution is to admit that it’s time to part ways. Let’s face it, love shouldn’t be a marathon of contempt and eye-rolling.

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5. You Don’t Consider Their Feelings

In the magical land of love, you always consider your partner’s feelings and try to avoid hurting them. But when you’re falling out of love, it’s like all logic flies out the window and you become a professional mean comment maker. The fabulous therapist Karen Washington puts it like this: “If you have such a strong aversion to your partner and their needs that you don’t mind cheating, lying, or intentionally hurting them, consider that a sign that you’re falling out of love.” Ouch!

6. You’ve Lost Respect for Them

Respect is a vital ingredient in every healthy relationship. However, over time, you might uncover things about your partner that make you lose respect for them faster than a dropped ice cream cone on a hot summer day. Maybe they broke your trust in an irreparable way or revealed something about themselves that you simply can’t accept. This rupture can damage your connection deeply, leading to a one-way ticket out of love town.

7. You’ve Lost Trust in Them

Trust, my darling fashionistas, is the foundation of every healthy relationship. But when your partner consistently erodes your boundaries or ignores your needs, it’s like they’re building a wall where love used to flourish. Let’s be real, it’s hard to stay in love with someone you don’t trust to show up for you. Trust me, I know it can be frustrating. You deserve a partner who supports and respects you, not one who erodes your trust like a sandcastle at high tide.

Now, my lovelies, remember that every relationship is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. Perhaps you’ve discovered some of these signs in your own relationship, but you and your partner are willing to work on them together. That’s a sign that love might still exist and thrive with a little TLC. But if you find yourself relating to these signs and feeling like your relationship is the sinking Titanic, it’s time to have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Whether you choose to salvage the relationship, part ways, or embark on a new romantic journey, remember that you deserve the love and happiness your fashionable heart desires.

Who says falling out of love can’t be fashionable? Tell us your hilarious stories or share your tips in the comments below!

About the Author

Madeline Howard is a writer, editor, and creative based in Brooklyn. Her work has been published in HotSamples, Nylon, HotSamples, and other fabulous publications. She’s a former editor at Women’s Health and currently runs her newsletter ‘hey howie’ at madelinehoward.substack.com. Don’t miss out, darling!

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