HotSamples’ 19 Best Sex Tips

HotSamples' 19 Best Sex Tips

Sex Tips
Image: Khadija Horton/Getty Images # HotSamples’s Guide to Fabulous, Satisfying, and Orgasmic Sex: 19 Tips to Spice Up Your Bedroom Game

Hey there, sexplorers! Are you ready to take your bedroom game to the next level? Look no further because HotSamples is here to serve you with a comprehensive guide on how to make everything you do in bed better. From mind-blowing oral techniques to electrifying foreplay, we’ve got the tips and tricks to bring you closer to the fabulous, satisfying, and orgasmic sex life you deserve.

But before we dive into the juicy details, let’s set the record straight: sex is not just about penetrative, penis-in-vagina intercourse. Let’s break free from society’s narrow definition of sex and embrace the plethora of other activities that fall under the “sex” umbrella. As certified sex therapist Holly Richmond, PhD, puts it, “All sex is good sex as long as it’s consensual and pleasurable.” So get ready to explore new horizons and discover what truly turns you on.

Now, let’s get started with some lighthearted and humorous tips to get you in the mood:

1. Get in the right headspace.

Give yourself at least 45 minutes to get turned on. Slow things down and wait until you’re fully turned TF on for sex that’s even more mind-blowing.
Activate your senses to make sure you’re fully turned on. Candles, lighting, scents—never underestimate the importance of ambiance.
Forgive and forget with some super-sultry makeup sex. Nothing says “I’m sorry” like some vulnerable, tender makeup sex.
Make sure you come first if you just started dating. Treat yourself as a priority, because you deserve it.
Don’t be afraid to initiate. Show your partner just how much they turn you on and flip the switch—everyone loves feeling irresistible.
Read a steamy book before a date. Let your imagination run wild as you visualize a hot storyline.
Create a secret code that translates to sexytimes. Who said ordering a dirty martini can’t mean “let’s blow this joint…and then each other”?
Keep your sexts simple. When in doubt, a simple “I need you now” can work wonders.

2. Communicate with your partner(s).

Establish consent! Start with consent and focus on pleasure, it’s the foundation of great sex.
Make a “Yes, No, Maybe” List. Discover each other’s desires and fantasies with a fun and open discussion.
Talk dirty! Let your imagination run wild and explore the power of spicy words.

3. Do some studying.

Read up on other real women’s masturbation habits for some inspiration.
Take a voyeuristic gander at some of the all-time steamiest sexts ever. Get yourself in the mood with some expertly crafted words.
Touch yourself beneath your bath jets to discover your own pleasure zones.
Do a dirty talk test to gauge their sext nastiness. Find out what words turn both of you on.
And don’t forget to sext what you desire. Let your partner know what you’re craving.

4. Explore kink.

Bring in some BDSM. Spice things up with gentle bondage or spanking using household items.
Try playing with power dynamics. Decide who wants to be dominant and who wants to be submissive.
Get a BDSM play set. Explore kink with beginner-friendly kits.

5. Dedicate time to sex like you would any other important activity in your life.

Put sex on the G-cal. Schedule intimate time to look forward to and turn up the anticipation.
Set a pleasure alarm. Schedule a specific time of day devoted to intimacy.
Have a date in a sex shop. Explore the world of sex toys and find new items to try together.
Practice Sensate Focus. An approach to intimacy that encourages exploration and curiosity.

6. Add in some visuals.

Watch horny TikTok videos for some after-dark inspiration.
Watch porn together for new moves and bonding.
Try giving a virtual BJ with a toy and some exhibitionist energy.

7. Master your movements.

Focus on grinding more while on top for maximum clitoral stimulation.
Use your tongue even more during sex. Get your tongue in there and watch things go va-va-voom.
Get the balls involved. Explore the pleasure of stimulating the entire package.
Use your hips to draw letters or spell out “coconut” for heightened stimulation.
Try adventurous and empowering novelty positions for a mind-blowing experience.

8. Use all the furniture.

Give chair sex a whirl for a new level of pleasure.
Get busy on the table. Utilize the versatility of a regular table for a unique experience.
The couch works too! Take a sexcation away from the bed.
The bathroom sink isn’t just for brushing your teeth. Get creative and explore different angles.

9. Practice non-penetrative intimacy.

Try mutual masturbation for a hot and educational experience.
Take a sex bath. Enjoy each other’s presence without the expectation of intercourse.
Sext! Spice up your day with flirty and steamy texts.

10. Invest in the right toys.

Know the difference between a cheap sex toy and a legit one. Prioritize body-safe materials for the best experience.
Bring a bullet vibrator to bed for mind-blowing clitoral stimulation.
Try a nipple toy that isn’t just a clamp. Explore different types of nipple stimulation.
Get a sex swing for some adventurous play.

11. Don’t focus so much on orgasm (yours or a partner’s).

“Good sex is about the journey, not the destination.” Enjoy the pleasure and experience of the whole act.
Try orgasmic meditation to focus on physical sensations.
Give your partner a massage for sensual touch and intimacy.

12. Location, location, location.

Give car sex a whirl for a thrilling experience.
Vacation sex is the best sex. Change your environment to spice up your sex life.
Yes, you can have actually good sex in a hot tub. Follow our tips for a steamy session.

13. Make things easier on yourself.

Try the sideways 69 for a more comfortable and enjoyable experience.
Invest in sex furniture for ergonomic and comfortable positions.
Missionary is your friend, so embrace it.
Stay hydrated to make oral sex easier and more enjoyable.

14. Don’t rush things.

Don’t skip the outercourse. Take your time with foreplay before getting down to business.
Pay attention to your aftercare routine to nourish the emotional and physical aspect of sex.
Try sacral massage for relaxed and pleasurable anal play.

15. Work on yourself.

Try a workout designed to increase stamina during sex. Feeling strong is sexy!
Masturbate in the shower for some self-care and exploration.
Make a masturbation playlist and indulge in your own pleasure.

16. Try the unexpected.

Have sex during your period to potentially alleviate cramps.
Try a sex game to spice things up.
Incorporate CBD into your sex life for a relaxed and enhanced experience.
Do your errands with Ben Wa balls for a secret thrill.

17. Sex up your space.

Get accessories to enhance shower sex for a safer and more comfortable experience.
Explore the potential of a quickie in the shower. The ideal position? Bent over, aiming the shower head at your hot spot.
Heat things up with at-home gym equipment for a new spin on classic positions.

18. Practice no-touch forms of intimacy.

Try mutual masturbation to explore each other’s desires and pleasure without direct touch.
Take a bath together without the expectation of sex.
Sext to deepen your sexual connection.

19. Embrace the fantasy.

Explore your fantasies together through open and playful discussions.
Try role-playing to bring your fantasies to life in a safe and exciting way.
Dress up and use costumes to add an extra layer of excitement.
Hold a small vibrator against the underside of the shaft or perineum for added pleasure.

So there you have it—HotSamples’s guide to fabulous, satisfying, and orgasmic sex. We hope these 19 tips have inspired you to explore new heights of pleasure and intimacy. Remember, sex should be fun, consensual, and focused on your pleasure. Now go forth and make your sex life sizzle!

Article by: Rachel Varina & Gigi Engle

HotSamples’ 19 Best Sex Tips