Pleasure Priority: Sex Positions for Clit Stimulation
8 Positions for Optimal Clit Stimulation That Will Elevate Your Sex Life
8 Clit Stimulation Positions to Enhance Your Sex Life
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Let’s face it, most sex positions we see on TV or in movies are all about the thrusting and penetration. But hey, what about the clitoris? The little button that brings pleasure to most people with vaginas? It deserves some love too! That’s why we’ve compiled a delightful list of sex positions specifically designed to prioritize clit stimulation. Because, ladies, you deserve to cum, and we’re here to help you on that journey.
According to resident sexologist at Astroglide, Jess O’Reilly, PhD, clitoral stimulation is the most direct and reliable path to pleasure and orgasm for many. Goodbye, penetrative sex alone – it’s about time we give our clit the attention it deserves! The clitoris is not just that tiny section on top that you can physically see. It’s surprisingly extensive and way bigger than you think. So, there are tons of ways to stimulate it that go beyond rubbing your vulva.
To achieve clit-stimulation-induced orgasms, take matters into your own hands, ladies. Try positions that allow for grinding, rubbing, pulsing, or creating pressure along the entire vulva. If you need some extra help, introduce your favorite stimulation to the mix using fingers or a favorite sex toy. Trust us, you can make any penetrative position instantly more clit-friendly with a little adjustments or a dash of fingering.
Now, if you’re feeling adventurous and want to skip penetration altogether, be empowered to do so! There are numerous outercourse options to give your clit some well-deserved love. From mutual masturbation to dry humping, and even using toys on each other, the possibilities are endless.
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Now, let’s dive into our experts’ recommended sex positions for max clitoral stimulation.
- The Tunnel of Love
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Forget straight-on pounding in the doggy style position. Instead, have your partner slide their penis or strap-on under you, rubbing it across your clit. It’s like a makeshift vag/hand job combo, ensuring pleasure for both of you. And hey, don’t shy away from a little lube action!
For those who prefer a penetrative alternative, try lying on your stomach with your partner on top, entering you from behind. Cup your hand or a flat toy around your vulva, creating a “pocket” for some intense rubbing, pulsing, or grinding sensations. The pressure, weight, and fullness of penetration will create a more overwhelming sensation for your pleasure.
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- The Lap Dance
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Take a seat on your partner’s lap, facing them, and angle yourself for maximum pleasure. Slide them inside and rock back and forth, grinding against them. Get creative with your hip movements, adding circular motions to enhance your pleasure. And if you need an extra boost, use your hand or introduce a toy to the party.
- Tabletop Service
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Here’s how tabletop service works: Stand next to a table, counter, or bed at hip height and bend over so that your upper body rests on the furniture. Your partner slides in from behind, and you press your body against the edge of the furniture. Lean into it for sustained pressure or slide up and down as you slide yourself onto your partner. And if you’d rather keep your furniture clean, a flat toy can provide the pressure you desire.
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- The Top Up
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Have your partner lie on their back while you lie on top of them, both facing the ceiling. Guide them inside and squeeze your legs together as they rock against you. Slide slightly up and down to intensify the pleasure. This position works wonders, especially if your partner has a large penis. For some extra stimulation, don’t hesitate to use your hands or include a vibrating toy in the mix.
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- The Open Bar
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If you’re all about leaning back and rubbing, circling, or tapping your clit, this position is for you. Hop on a bar stool (or any elevated surface), spread your legs, and let your fingers explore freely. Feel the sensation of pleasure as you stimulate yourself just the way you like it.
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- Riding the Edge
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In this position, lie on your back with your partner flat on top, and press your legs together tightly. Slowly roll your hips, taking your time to build up the anticipation. When you both feel close, stop and enjoy the moment. Kiss, stroke their back, lock eyes – anything that stops the momentum. Keep repeating until you both can’t resist the grand finale. You may even want to add an arousal gel for extra intensity.
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- The Grinder
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If grinding is your thing, try this position. Mount your partner, facing their feet, and press your vulva against their leg while they pleasure you either vaginally or anally. Rather than relying on an inanimate object, grind against a warm and responsive human to reach new heights of pleasure.
- Leaning Cowgirl
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Cowgirl is a classic, but if it’s not doing much for you, it’s time to level up. Lean down and rub against your partner’s pubic bone or have them rub a lubed thumb across your clit. For an electrifying experience, consider using a vibrating cock ring or wand vibrator to intensify the pleasure.
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There you have it, ladies! Our delightful selection of sex positions tailored for maximum clit stimulation. Remember, it’s all about pleasure and discovering what works best for you. Explore, experiment, and never be afraid to communicate your desires. Enjoy the journey of pleasure like the goddess that you are!
Jill Hamilton, a contributor for HotSamples.com and the blogger behind In Bed With Married Women, wants you to unleash your inner pleasure goddess.
